5 Types of Lesbians you find at a Gay Bar
Internet dating is obviously the biggest thing right now. However, every once in a while you still want to head out to the bar and pick somebody up old school style. If you haven’t been to the bar in a while we’ll help you out by giving you a list of five lesbians you’ll definitely find in a gay bar. Or you’ll recognize them if you’re a regular at your local gay bar.
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The Femme Lesbian
Her friends and her curl their hair, perfect their YouTube cat wings and wear tight dresses but you figure she’s just one of the straight girls coming to the club to experiment. When in reality she just got out of a relationship and she’s looking for some hot lesbian to show her a good night or even take things further. You most likely ignore her, even if you’re a femme, because you don’t trust that her due to stereotypes and you’re not looking to teach someone or to be hurt yourself. Later on though, it seems you definitely always get a sign that she’s a full blown lesbian and then your chance is always gone.
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The NOT lesbian
Okay, so this might NOT be a lesbian you find at a gay bar but it is a person you find. This is the girl who embodies that classic hardcore butch look that you love. Her hair is short and shaved on one side, she’s wearing a wife beater, baggy pants and rocking some timberlands or converse and you fall in love… until you realize that she’s not a lesbian at all and just a really trendy and incredibly sexy female. Your heart hurts and your promise to always admire her from a far.
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The “just broke up”
Okay, these girls come in a variety of types you have the girl who absolutely does not want to be there and sits there while her friends point out every girl in the room who is suitable for her. While she sips on her drink, wishing she were with her ex and just waiting until she can leave.
On the other hand you have the girl that is doing everything she can to forget her ex and will probably end up crying by the end of the night. She seems like she’s having a good time but she’s trying to talk to waaay too many people, dancing too hard and slamming down shots like crazy. You want to reach out to her but she just won’t understand you. Make sure she is with good friends if you’re worried.
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The Couple
They’re adorable and cute. You can imagine them sitting at home with their cats just as much as you see them being everything cute. They hold hands, laugh as they do shots together and order their drinks. You may see them with a group of friends and they just look so comfortable being with each other. You know that they’ll go home at the end of the night and wake up still loving each other and without the walk of shame struggle.
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The Boss
This is the girl that is rarely in a relationship, yet always surrounded by people. Everybody you know has had a night with her and she keeps on going. You always wonder if you should take a chance because she knows just how to flirt but then you let that thought go as you remind yourself that she’s done this to everybody. Even if you’re tickled pink by her compliments.
In every place it always seems we can find people that fit into stereotypes, have a laugh about it but don’t seriously put people into boxes. Nobody is as they seem. Try and give everybody a chance or get to know more about them other than what you can see.
