How to Find the Right Lesbian Partner
The question is often asked “How do I find the right partner for me?” Often times people over complicate this and the answer is simple! You just have to find the same kind of crazy as you. What I mean is everyone has their quirks, funny habits, idiosyncrasies. You need to find someone who fits well into your lifestyle and you can both adapt to each other when the road gets a bit rocky. The two of you need to feed off of each others energy and work as a team. You don’t want be with someone that loses their mind every time things don’t go their way. Life is constantly changing and you want someone that can back you up, run along side you.
I think the most successful couples are people who get along really well and do things together. As the saying goes if you play together you will stay together. Here are some great tips on how to find the right lesbian partner for you.
Common interests
Find someone who likes doing the same things as you. Whether it is going to the gym, movies, likes to socialize in the same way by going out to a bar or staying home and entertaining.
Where to meet?
When looking for a partner make sure to go to places that you like hanging out. If you hate the bar scene then don’t go there looking for a date. Try taking up a new hobby or join a club that interests you that is geared around women. You never know where the right match for you might pop up.
Make new friends
To increase your chances of meeting other single lesbians make friends by befriending other lesbians and lesbian couples. Your perfect match may be right around the corner.
Say Yes.
If you like hanging out at home or with a handful of friends and you do not deviate from your comfort zone you may never meet new people. Break your habits! When someone asks you to go to that house party or carnival and you don’t feel like going out that night, SAY YES! Each time you get out of your comfort zone great things can happen. Even if you don’t meet someone that night you may make great new friends.
Take a class
Often the LGBT community in your area may offer classes geared to gay/lesbians. Pick one that really interests you. Since this is geared towards the LGBT community, most of the women there will be lesbians. Remember just be yourself and have fun.
Blind dating
Blind dating might be a scary thing for you. Just remember to be yourself and have confidence going in. If you are not comfortable going alone tell the friend that is trying to set you up to double date. It relieves some of the pressure. Just remember that if the person is not interested in you, it has no reflection on who you are, it just says they are looking for something different. Once you do find the person that values who you are you will know.
Create a coffee group.
Meet at a local coffee shop once or twice a month and encourage your friend to bring other people. If you want to keep it interesting try a new coffee shop each time. You can create a mailing list of facebook page to let everyone where the next event might be.
Try the next town
Just by getting out for a day trip and explore the next town. Do your research and see if they have an LGBT community group. Your ideal match may not be in your own backyard.
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