It’s hard for lesbians to find a date, I mean we obviously have great dating sites like GirlfriendsMeet to help us find girls but it will just never be as easy for us as it is for a woman who is bisexual or straight. So of course as soon as we go on that first date and we’re attracted to the person we all of a sudden have all these thoughts and questions flood our mind because we really want things to work out.

If you thought it was just  you, then think again! You are not alone and lesbian YouTuber, Arielle Scarcella walks us through what goes on in her mind after a first date and basically every single thing she says is completely relatable.

It has everything you ever could have wanted in a lesbian YouTube video- cats, dildos and of course gorgeous girls as well as the huge debate in same sex relationships (who texts first?!)

So sit down for a laugh, grab your tea and your cats. It’s time to learn what lesbians do after a first date so you don’t have to do all the dirty digging around yourself.

You also get cute points for watching it with your girlfriend and reminiscing about your weird and kooky antics that followed after your first date.

On a side note you should also follow Arielle Scarcella on YouTube she puts up lots of great content that lesbians can relate to as well as has many videos that  help others understand what being a lesbian is like.  She also believes in being body positive and is a huge activist in the LGBT community.