Being in love has always been described as either one of the best feelings or the worst pain. Being in love is great but the fear of knowing that at any moment it could go away can turn you into your worst fear. It tears you apart and makes you feel like a version of yourself that you didn’t know you could be. Love is not the same for everyone and it most definitely differs but there are some signs that are just shared among the majority of people. They understand and they know. Here are five signs that you may be falling in love.
- You do things that you’ve never done before or usually wouldn’t do
I’m not saying that you’re being forced into anything. However, when you start falling for someone their interests peak you. You may try working out with them or an art class. You may even like it or you may laugh and accept it’s theirs but the fact is you’re trying something new because if you like this person that much you want to see what they like. There is a good chance that you’ve probably googled it as well to try and get as much information as you can before seeing them.
- Switching schedules
These are the times you do the unfortunate thing and will cancel plans with friends to see them. This is when you’ll also use one of your sick days as a mental health day and you see that person. You use all your energy to get to them anyway you can. Free time is filled with them, you go to the parties they invite you to and even try and hang out with their friends. It’s that obsessive time before you two finally fall into a routine.
- You think long term
Perhaps you’re being a bit insane but this isn’t any ordinary crush, you are falling in love. You imagine babies and a wedding and it’s stupid but you try to see how this person would fit into your life forever. You have scenarios of this and how your family is going to react to them and like them. It’s nice because you’re able to daydream whenever you guys say that you have the same thing in common.
- It almost seems that you can’t go a minute without thinking of them
You check your phone every ten seconds because you think that somehow you’re going to miss a message you can’t put it down but you try to. You set it down for ten seconds and say you’ll wait but then in a moment you’re picking it up again. It seems that everything you see or hear reminds you of that person. Every tumblr love text post relates to, every song, movie and even the silliest thing like a coffee can remind you of the time you had a coffee.
- You want to be a better person
You don’t know why but all of a sudden you’re getting back into old hobbies. You want to work out not because you’re a gym bunny but just because you have the energy and it feels good to look good. You wear your best clothes and maybe you even do your makeup or hair. You do anything that makes you feel your most confident or best because they’re bringing that out in you and you want them to see you that way.
Love can be a splendid, scary experience and it sometimes doesn’t happen when expected. Take it day by day and appreciate every bit of it so that it doesn’t go away.
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